This morning I was running errands, rushing around trying to make myself presentable for being seen by the public. Lest I have a repeat of the inside out shirt incident…still shudder at that fashion fatality. Anyway, I have an appointment at noon, so I leave the house in plenty of time…don’t want to be late.

I was almost to my destination when I see flashing lights heading towards me. I’m on the opposite side of a four lane highway. The police cruiser is going slowly with all lights blaring-followed just as slowly by an all white hearse. The line of cars behind the car of honor all had hazards flashing, indicating they were part of the mournful parade.

Out of respect, I pulled onto the shoulder of the road and paid my respects in the only way I could for this unknown soul. I waited patiently for the final car in the line- another police cruiser with flashing lights.

Yes, I was in a hurry. Yes, I had places to be. But as I sat there, I couldn’t help but think of all the people in the passing cars that surely would rather be anywhere but in that police-led line. Anywhere but heading to a cemetery to bid a final farewell to a loved one, friend, coworker, acquaintance…

So I sat there. Waited patiently. You see, I realize we are all in a hurry- we’ve got places to go, people to see, things to do…until we don’t. We rush and rush through this life adhering to schedules and timelines until we are being carried as the Grand Marshal of our own fairwell tour. I’m in no hurry to get there. I’ve got places to see, people to love, and things I want to accomplish. When it’s time for my parade, I want the people patiently waiting on the shoulder of the road to take the time to slow down for a minute. Take a breath. Appreciate the time they still have while they have it. Because one day, we’ll all be the guest of honor at a final farewell and all that rushing will slow to a crawl for a few moments for the ones we love. All the hurrying will be for naught…

Slow down now. Don’t wait. Acknowledge this life and the beauty that surrounds you while you’re here to enjoy it.

Copyright © Kelly Hobbs 2023